Zubaan pe qabu rakhna , Burai se Bachne ke liye

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Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullah.

Zubaan pr qabu rkhe.

Is bare me btane ka ye maqsad he ki zubaan se aksr gunah hote he, jese kisi ko gali dena, kisi ki ghibat krna, kisi pr tohmat lgana, kisi ki chughli krna, bado se zuban drazi krna, or biwi ka shohr se bahas krna, wgerah.

Is treeqe ki bahut sare gunah he jo zubaan ke zariye hote he, agr hm apne zuban ko qabu krlenge, to bahut sare gunaho se bch skte he.

Zubaan dikhne me to bahut choti si cheez he, pr iska asr bahut bada he, iske nikah, talaq, bhi hote he kisi ka dil bhi dukhta he, or agr hm usi zuban se muaafi mang le to sb kch sahi bhi ho skta he.

Isiliye kuch bolne se pehle bahut soch smjh kr zubaan se kuch kehna chahiye, agr bina soche smjhe bol diya to bad ne pachtawe ke siwa kuch nhi hota he.

Or aurate khas kr in sb cheezo me mahir hoti he, kisi ki burayi krne me ya fir ghibat krne me, ya fir apne shohr ki nafarmani krne me.

Hazrat Mohammad S.A.W ne farmaya ki insan ko jahnnam me ondha girane wali cheez uski zubaan he.

Aam tor pr jb ye zubaan qabu me nhi hoti, to is se beshumar gunah ho jate he, tajurba krke dekh lijiye ki mrd ki zubaan fir bhi kuch qabu me hoti he.

Or aurate zubaan ko qabu me rkhne ka ehtemam nhi krti he.

Iske natije me fasad paida hota he, Khuda ke liye apni zubaano ko ehteyat se istemal krne ki koshish kre, ki zubaan se koi esa klma (bat) na nikle jisse dusre ka dil tute, khas tor shohr ka dil, or maa baap ka dil, kyuki ye agr nraz huye to Allah taala bhi nraz honge.

Allah taala hme apni zubaan ka sahi jagh istemal krne wala bnaye.

Aameen.

Shukriya..