Tía Abuela

in blurthispano •  2 years ago 
El ser Tía Abuela es un vínculo y una relación consanguínea que no escucha mucho.

Esta semana me ha tocado compartir con dos sobris-nietos en edades de 6 y 3 años.

Una experiencia que de verdad aún no tengo nietos, pero estos niños, su educación, su convivencia es un poco convulsionada para no darle otro nombre, veo la tranquilidad de mi sobrina tipo principio económico Laizze-Faire (dejar hacer, dejar pasar).

Esa formación que ella como adulta tuvo de niña pareciera que no es su objetivo alcanzar ese nivel.

A veces pienso, como ya mis hijos son adultos jóvenes que esa dedicación que tuve como madre a pesar de tantas actividades que tuve en el campo laboral no la tiene (en) gran cantidad de padres jóvenes porque hogar constituido no tiene(en). Es una historia repetitiva , no es modelo que se venía siguiendo, a veces siento que no proyecta(n) hijos adultos responsables en lo que elijan en su vida.

Son mentes tan diferentes, como si nunca se les habló de disciplina, educación de hogar, entre otras cosas.

Digo que va a ser de nuestro globo terráqueo, Madre Tierra con los niños que se están levantando de esta forma. Esa estructura familiar así faltara la figura paterna la madre asumía 100% la responsabilidad...era una educación única con muchos valores. Es un porcentaje pequeño que lo asume como debe ser...formar adultos responsables, con principios y valores, con esa educación como siempre se ha dicho comienza en el hogar.

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Being a Great Aunt is a bond and a blood relationship that you don't hear much about.

This week I had the opportunity to share with two great-nieces and nephews aged 6 and 3.

An experience that I really don't have grandchildren yet, but these children, their education, their coexistence is a bit convulsive to give it another name, I see the tranquility of my niece as the economic principle of Laizze-Faire (let do, let pass).

It seems that the training she had as an adult is not her goal to reach that level.

Sometimes I think, as my children are already young adults, that the dedication I had as a mother, despite the many activities I had in the work field, is not present in many young parents because they do not have a home. It is a repetitive story, it is not a model that has been followed, sometimes I feel that they do not project responsible adult children in what they choose in their lives.

They are so different minds, as if they were never told about discipline, home education, among other things.

I say what is going to become of our globe, Mother Earth with children who are rising up in this way. That family structure, even if the father figure was missing, the mother assumed 100% responsibility...it was a unique education with many values. It is a small percentage that assumes it as it should be...to form responsible adults, with principles and values, with that education as it has always been said begins at home.

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