Know your limits and when to press the stop button by @damselofpolicy

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Greetings friends, how are you all doing today? I strongly believe that each and every one of us is doing good today. Today I will like to talk about limits as it concerns human.

Human being is a specie of God's creation that is always seeking for attention directly or indirectly. Sometimes we do things with people and we're comfortable with our actions while the person involve might not be cool with our actions.

Illustrating with myself, am A very jovial person,fun to be with and plays a lot and most times this personality of mine will block me from seeing that others aren't the same as me.

Most times I tend to push harder on people because I feel like they should understand it the way I understood it but it doesn't actually end well.

Most times, I seek attention from people who doesn't have time for me, also I seek for care from people who don't have such to offer forgetting the fact that it can only take someone who have something to give it out.

It's ok to wish to be cared for, it ok to try being open to people you think should reciprocate you but hey listen everyone isn't you. Your believes, your culture, your upbringing, your mindset and everything is totally different from that person's own so try not condemn yourself or the person when you didn't get what you offered in return.

There is limit to everything. You might be in good terms with someone and at a point the person starts acting weird towards you and that cold response kept on going the same way,please at this point I think a U turn will help you keep your value and worth.

There is a limit to personal relationship,there is a limit to business relationship,there is a limit to virtually everything so in order to maintain the limits try to find out people's limit to enable you maintain their limit.

Unfortunately,life isn't that fair with everyone so we might at a time fail to understand the hand writing on the wall telling us to stop,but even if you don't get the sign and people summon courage and tell you to stop,please save yourself the energy and stop for your own peace if mind.

If you've gotten so used to pestering around such person that you can't just stop,then try using another thing to replace that person. At that point you always talk to that person,try using either music or movie or game to cover up that space and when you do it for a few times you will entirely forget such such things that made you cross someone's boundaries.

Finally,listen good that someone has rules and regulations and limits which you mustn't break doesn't mean that such person is a bad person just try and understand people with their policies and abide by them only then can you have a healthy relationship with people.

I hope this piece made a little sense?
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