As a father, one of the highest gifts to your kids is accessibility at all times because when you as a father become too hard to get or too distance to your kids they tend to see you as a stranger or a father that is not always there for them and this can make them defenseless in their minds .
When there is an issue that requires a father's attention and he is not accessible to his kids they go elsewhere where they are welcomed and whoever they have access to and the dont seem to care what kind of advice comes from there just as long as they have access and a listening ears they tend to be ok with it and sometimes they are always getting the wrong advice from the wrong source.