Lol are you sure the older do not start to eat first because they just want to chop more of the meat pieces.

I once had this over paid brute of a guy on staff at a hotel we started managing. We asked the staff in a training about their aspirations. He said he always wanted to grow up and be a daddy so he could eat the fufu first with the biggest meat in the bowl.

Hint he did not last long with us, not much of an aspiration.