Some amazing friends.

in blurtafrica •  2 years ago 
When it comes to friendship and to really define who my friend is or who they are, I most times have no much explanation because I have lots of people in my life who stand as friends and I can't remember exactly how we became friends but they have made much impact in my life and I have to an extent made impact in their lives too .

Why are we friends.

Have you taken time to ask yourself why you are still friends with those whom you call friends?
Maybe there's no reason to question why you're still friends with the ones you are still friends with perhaps the mean a lot to you.

What brings people together as friends most times aren't defined.

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I'm not really that good at taking photos of myself I think the last time I snapped a good picture of myself was in 2018 . Yes in 2018 but randomly, I take selfies and this is this young lady in my department who loves snapping pictures and she asked me of my phone so could take some shots and surprisingly she couldn't find pictures of me in my photo gallery. Hahahaha. And she said. 'sir Vincent you must snap picture today and it became a picture day .

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It was really a sunny day and I wasn't in that mood for pictures but she won't let me be even when I was giving her the pose yet she was doing her job.
As I wouldn't let her snap me, she said after your program in this university, what memories would you have if not these photos. I got her message but I was not prepared for that and I was very tired after seating down for a three hours lecture in a very hot classroom.

From snapping pictures, we started talking and the next day we saw and greeted not as a distant person but now as a friend and I'm sure we're friends now.
No one can truly tell the day he/she would make a new friend but I think making friends is a daily thing and opportunity do present itself.

Foe today friends tomorrow .

Life is very dynamic, and it keeps no permit friends or permanent enemy. The one who happens to be your best friend today might in some cases turn to become an enemy that you don't ever want to see around you. And that person whose presents was irritating at first might become your closet friend. How funny this life is.

There's a parlance in my place that says 👇

No one knows the compound of his inlaws until he marry's

This is to that no one would tell from the beginning who should be his best friend or worse enemy, treating every one fine and with respect matters a lot perhaps there's a line where we probably will meet and when we meet there, what would the record be ? For this fact, see everyone as a friend until they have said to you by words or actions that they are not friends yet don't totally throw them away they could be useful at some point.

I have seen different types of friends and this is not coming as a true and verified fact it's subject self interpretation. However, I think in my journey of life I have met the following types of friends;

  1. Those who will point the road to you.
  2. Those who will light your path.
  3. Those who will encourage you on the path.
  4. Those who will want to quench the light.
  5. Those who want to your sense.
  6. Those who are waiting for you to fail.
    7 . There are those will stand through out the journey and continues to remain. When the rain comes the provide the umbrella and when the sun comes together you go for swimming.

In all these friends, the best friend is you, understand when the phase of a certain friend ends and never be angry that your friend left. It's normal. The best solider leaves and new persons joins the barracks.

You can never walk alone.

I have great and amazing friends who through tick and thin had been a source of energy to keep me going.

Thanks for been here for me. This year shall not see your end. You shall be bigger and better.
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