I didn't know what it was like to put up with people in love. Because I learned from my husband that there is more than I knew. He is a supportive partner in the truest sense of the word.
I am a lawyer by profession. So I go to cases all over the country. Sometimes it's hard for me to go there alone. He leaves all work aside for that day and goes with me. He asks a hundred times if he will type it if he is going to make a case till night. If you say that you need to go to the office to get a file, he will go with you even if he is very handsome. Oh, today I have a lot of work and if I say it's hard to talk, he waits patiently without bothering me until I get back. He puts up with my calls for hours. Who do you talk to the least? He is the strength for my work without ever bothering me about why the line is busy.
The photo attached to these words was taken last week. I could translate a written speech to send to Vavunya the next day. When we came to the office at night, we had to get caught in heavy rain. Leaving me with all my lap files and Pikmi, he came to the office in the rain on his bike. He put a chair and sat outside because it was too wet to come inside. He was there for me for about two hours in those wet clothes until the work was over. Sometimes I can't imagine how he waits for two or three hours in front of the office waiting for me.
It's not really the best thing. After eating so much, even when I finished my work, I said with a very loving smile, 'Let's go honey, do you want something to eat? I don't understand how he can say, 'Are you tired today?' Even though I am still learning from him, even though I have been trying to learn for five years, I still can't be patient enough. Because I think about some small things and I know that he is under pressure because he does not say.
I am posting this on fb because I want to see his sacrifices again and again as a memory.
Every man needs a supportive partner who does not eat his head. I think there is no more freedom than that. Having said this, I am still trying to become such a person. Because it requires a lot of patience. Need patience. Need understanding.
That is the other reason for this post. Think about what kind of person you are...? What if you get someone like that? .. Now you are in a place where it is difficult for the other person to bear you, you can change. learn. Because now I feel that I have also learned a few things. They are things we can get used to. Things that feel good when you get used to them.
Wait until the job is done. Accept with pleasure. Don't bother in between.
Support any good thing that is going to be done with good words. Don't talk negatively.
If there is a problem, be strong enough to solve it. Don't blame him for being stupid.
If you have bad habits, say it slowly. Don't always criticize and put down.
Understand that a person should have privacy and freedom. Don't go putting your head in everything.
This is something I have learned and am trying to practice. Get used to it. Love it 😌😌😂😂
Life is too short. We want to be as happy as possible. ❤
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