The power of stillness - find forgiveness - and a challenge for @lucylin

The past couple of weeks has been heated here on BLurt. . ., and I'm not going to pretend to be innocent, as I have participated in many of the arguments, and have pushed people's buttons with my sarcasm, and probably triggered many, many people.

Sadly I only have gotten hold of the list of who 'muted' me after these events, so I can not fully tell, who 'muted' me before or after, but I have a good guess. . . (not gonna name them, as no point, they can't 'hear' me. . . many blessings to them though. . .lol)

Now, most of you have read @lucylin's posts about his views and opinions on these matters. . .

He can be harsh AF. . . right?

But that's just him, and who am I to say anything, when I can easily go overboard myself. . . .
Anyways.

Our obsession with each other has been pretty obvious to everybody on Blurt (I mean at least you don't get to see our private convos, lol, those would defo get an NSFW tag. . . TMI, I know. . . )

But, no matter the connection and my love for him, I still am a bitch, when it comes to calling people out on their BS. . .

As much as I agree with pretty much everything he has to say, I still think, that it is time allow a pause in action. . . .

We all said what needed to be said.
We all heard what we needed t hear.
We all have our opinions on them.
So it is time for the water to settle.

I mean, can anybody see their reflection in the running, murky water?
NO!
You gotta let the water settle, and then you will be able to see things more clearly. . .

I am aware that the traits of Aspergers are likely to be stronger than my will of trying to make him do things. . .but its ok, I HAVE A PLAN. . .

To take one's mind away of something, no matter how obsessed they are, all you need is something more inviting to play with. . . ( no, it is not going to be a sexual offer)

So. . . .

I invite @lucylin to share more of his funny material. . .
And I challenge him to share a funny post every day for next month.
( I know one a day can be a bit too big of a challenge, when one has other things to do, so I'm willing to negotiate, and ask for 5 funny stories a week. . .)

The stories have to be unrelated to the Blurt dramas. . .

NOW. . .
if you agree with me, to take his mind away from the dramas and all the mocking of the Blurt "leaders", then I invite you to show your support by upvoting his funny material.
Cause then when he sees that it worth more to share those, than it will be something to actually focus on and put energy into. . .

I did actually scroll back today and have re-read some of his old posts (yes, I have way too much time on my hand), and these are some of my faves. . .

• It's a long way to Tipperary.....Part 1...' It's not a stereotype, he’s a very naughty drug dealer'…apparently….
• It's a long way to Tipperary.....Part 2 ...dismantling...
• How to give head properly - with easy to understand diagrams and photo’s.
• The Blurt meet up - What really happened….Is it time to call the police ? I present my case...
• The Witch, The Warlock, and The Penguin...Part 1....
• The Witch, The Warlock, and The Penguin...Part 2....Reg falls over.
• The Witch, The Warlock, and The Penguin...Part 3....Taxi !

Like i really prefer to read these things over the arguements, even if think they are on point, and have a lot of truth in them. . .
But these are actually well written, funny posts, and I count them as quality content on Blurt. (I mean, nowhere as good as my stolen memes everyday, but not everyone is me, I know. . . .)

What are your thoughts on them? (not my memes, but @lucylin's writing)

!!!Disclaimer!!!
It does not mean that he does not have the right for free speach.
It does not mean he is not welcome to share his opinion.
It is a invitation for sharing more content, that people are enjoying and making them laugh.

I do believe in replacing things with something more uplifting, rather than cutting things out completely. . .
Like freezing his account or removing him from Blurt? BIG FAT NO
Encouraging him to share more of his funny material? BIG FAT YES

See my point?
It is an invitation . . . not a force, not a must, it is to invite, to bring more of what we like. And support that. . .

Also. . .
(and here I probably am going a bit too far. . . but hey. . . what is there to lose?)
There is an African Tribe, where, if a person does something wrong, and really piss people off, they surround the person, and tell them all the good things this person has ever done. . .

Im calling @megadrive , @tekraze , @imransoudagar and @bestkizito into this convo btw. . .(would call in some other people too but they muted both me and the penguin so no way they gonna hear me)

Feel free to share something good about him, or which posts by him you liked, etc (you get the picture). . .

Another disclaimer:
@lucylin has no idea about this post, he did not make me write this, he has nothing to do about any of this, it is only me who has a delusion, that I can come up with solutions. . . lol
If anything, he will be triggered and tell me off, ( lol ), and tell me in a (hopefully) funny post why I am totally wrong and woowoo. . .
(Btw, I've set that his account receives half the rewards for this post, since we are trying to encourage him)

(btw, I have found a heart in my melon today, what is it if not a sign to return to love. . .?)

On another note:
Hopefully Blurt price will go up soon, cause it is pretty pathetic atm . . .@ultravioletmag and I wanna go on our Thailand tour for the winter and escape the miserable times in the Uk.
@world-travel-pro can help us with planning our Blurt Meet Up there. . .

Oh, and before I go, I invite @thirdeyecrown to be more active on Blurt. . . Honestly, he and @lucylin will be BFFs in no time once he starts joining in the parties. . . (though I believe I was just proposing peace, lol)

Anyways, love yous 💜