I actually resonate with what @clixmoney says. . .Some people are just better at spoken words when it comes to certain things. You are very good at writing, and it really reflects what you feel ( although reading it's the polite version of you makes me question 😅), but some people are better in a debate when they can speak. I myself am one of those. If you really pissed me off, and we would start arguing here, probably after a while, I would propose to have a proper conversation. However, I also hear where you coming from, it is indeed a blogging page, and people are here to write. Your preferred medium is written words, as that is what makes you feel more comfortable. But especially because of that, is why it might be easier for someone to debate with you in a place where you not already half way ahead. . .I mean you will always have an advantage, by being good at writing and being so clear and to the point. It's not everybody's strength.
RE: Power is not always power ! [blackmailing]
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To be clear.....
All my work, sales, business, resorts , hotels - ALL have been dependent on excellent communication (oral skills). ,,,ooerrr....that's not including several years on webcam ...
I can talk in front of an audience, shall we say.
That's not point - in the slightest.
As you say - it's a blogging platform, and writing is the chosen medium.
If the subject were free speech etc - philosophical debates- whether oral or written - I would not take prisoners - and I have zero desire to belittle someone on cam....
THAT ...would be bullying and abusive.
My thai boxing trainer was semi - pro - and I used to spar with him in the ring.
He told me 'go for it', 'treat it like a real fight'.
Why?
Because he was so many levels better that I could ever hope to be - whatever I did made no difference to him.
If he fought back to the level he was capable of - THAT would have been bullying and abusive.
..and now I need my first coffee...brb...lol
LoL, i always seem to catch your 'before caffeinated times' for answers 😅🤣😂
(We are in a very different time zone!!!)
I understand you have great oral skills 😅,
and I am pretty sure that just like in the written form, you would also be able to debate wonderfully with anyone.
My point was, that he expressed that he would prefer that, as it is easier, and it felt that from you it was "unexceptable" to not have great writing skills to debate on a blogging page.
And i think that if you were gonna say to me, that 'Petra, it would be easier for me to write to you.' I wouldnt make a go at you for that and be like, its not ok that you dont talk to me and you wanna write.
As i said, if you pissed me off, i would feel more confident shouting it out than aggressively typeing with errors and making no sense 😅 (thats me, not clix)
Also!!! @lucylin please remember, that you may not be able to sense to what degree you are pushing someone to try against you . . . You are not just a regular pinguin, you are "the pinguin with ADHD, who took some cocain, and have a full set of weapons at hand to fight off anyone at anytime. . . (no offence, its just my expression, lol)
oh.......... you should see me debate on charlie ! (sighs.... reminisces)
....I have several corpses and people living in padded cells, to attest to my debating CV. lolol
LoL, I can imagine . . .
....my reputation precedes me, it seems ...lol
Entitlement is a terrible mindset..lol
Entitlement is a terrible mindset....
Oh, I dunno - I manage to write diatribe that makes no sense, and I get away with it quite nicely !
I would never knowingly piss you off mademoiselle....inadvertently, very possibly.
(you can blame the asparagus in me).
I personally think you need to learn to compromise, be more flexible, and learn not to have to be always right.
(sounds like the only child to me)
Nah, observing you now for a little while, I don't think you can piss me off even inadvertently. . . I know your kind, very well, I grew up around man like you, although you far more intelligent than they were. But yeah, I just learned to find pleasure in testing the grounds and the boundaries with how far I can go. So there is far more chance I will be the one to piss you off with being onto you and pocking my nose into everything you do😅
No......you have it completely twisted .....I want to be proved wrong !
... I thirst to be shown my own 'thought process errors ' - that's the whole point (to me)..
.....it may come across that i'm egotistical - it has been said !! lol.. - it's not the case, no matter the impression...can I blame the asparagus again ? - this could be a great 'go to' defense - I might become a SJW !....! lol
Sure. Everytime 😅😂🤣
Wooo-hoooooo !...NOW I can play the victim card !
......yessssssssss !
There you go, I was right 😅
Victimhood written all over you 🤣