Never live life like you're forced to, rather live it as per it's your choice and decision. I choose the way my live goes because even if i should take up people's directives, when i make mistakes, it's all up to me.
There are sometimes the we would need advises but not letting them control our lives for us. We learn everyday, so learn and stand strong by it.
Some people view enjoying life as reckless living but that's not true unless you choose it like that yourself. In my life I have chosen to live my life is such a fun and comfortable way. It eases off stress and creates a relaxed mind without contradictions.
Live freely and stay comfortably well...
Regards, @fahvour810