urdu post:
Aqalmand aur ma’ature soch ka nishan ye hai ke insaan har faislay ko sochnay samajhnay ke baad kare. Har baat par jazbati hona aur foran faisla lena hamesha behtareen tareeqa nahi hota. Mature log apni priorities set karte hain, apnay jazbat par qaboo paate hain, aur har mushkil mein achi soch aur musbat approach rakhtay hain. Aqalmand sochnay ke liye sabse zaroori baat ye hai ke kisi bhi maslay par alag alag perspectives ko samajhna aur apni ghaltiyon se seekhna. Zindagi ko behtareen bananay ke liye hamesha plan aur foresight zaroori hoti hai.
Mature soch rakhne ke liye har baat ko sabr aur tehammul ke saath dekhna zaroori hai. Zindagi mein aise moments aate hain jahan jazbat pehle aate hain, lekin samajdari is mein hai ke har reaction ko control kiya jaye aur pehle socha jaye.
Har insaan ki soch aur nazar apni hoti hai, lekin aqalmandi ka taluq doosron ki nazariyat ko samajhne aur izzat dene se hai. Jab aap doosron ke point of view ko samajhne lagte hain, toh har mushkil ka hal nikalna asaan ho jata hai.
Zindagi ke har marahil mein seekhna aur apni ghaltiyon ko tasleem karna mature hone ki nishani hai. Ghaltiyan sabse hoti hain, lekin samajdaar wohi hai jo unse sabak le kar apna agla qadam behtareen banata hai.
Masail ka samadhaan jazbati hone ke bajaye practical aur logical soch ke saath nikalna chahiye. Har mushkil ko ek challenge ki tarah lena aur usse seekhna hi samajdari hai.
Aqalmand log har faislay ke liye waqt nikalte hain aur apni decision-making ko plan karte hain. Wo hamesha long-term faiday aur nuksan ko madde nazar rakhte hain.
Mature hone ka matlab yeh bhi hai ke chhoti chhoti baton par barhasti karne ke bajaye zindagi ke baray maqsad par focus karna chahiye. Chhoti baton par ulajhne ke bajaye, zindagi ke baray faislay ko samajh ke lena hi behtareen tareeqa hai.
Samajhdari ka matlab hai apni personality ko develop karna aur hamesha self-improvement par kaam karna. Har din apni skills aur soch ko behtareen banane ki koshish karna zindagi ka asal maqsad hona chahiye.
Zindagi mein samajhdari ka ek aham pehlu ye hai ke jazbati baton par chup rehna seekha jaye. Har baat ka foran jawab dena zaroori nahi hota. Kabhi kabhi behtareen jawab khamoshi hoti hai jo aapki maturity aur samajhdari ko sabit karti hai.
Aqalmand insaan har waqt sikhnay ke liye tayar rehta hai. Wo yeh samajhta hai ke knowledge sirf kitaabon se nahi milti, balke logon ke tajurbaat aur apne mahool se bhi badi seekh milti hai. Seekhne ka jazba zindagi mein kamiyabi ka raasta kholta hai.
Har faislay ko lenay se pehle uska asar na sirf apne upar, balke doosron ke upar bhi sochna chahiye. Mature soch rakhne wale log apne actions aur unke consequences ka khayal rakhte hain aur is wajah se unka har qadam sochnay samajhnay ke baad hota hai.
Mature insaan wo hota hai jo apne emotions ko control karne ka hunar rakhta ho. Gussa, afsos, aur khushi sab insani jazbat hain, lekin un par qaboo paakar hi insaan zindagi mein behtarein faislay kar sakta hai aur doosron ke liye ek misaal ban sakta hai.
English post:
How to Think Smart Like a Mature Person
The sign of intelligent and mature thinking is that a person takes every decision after thinking and understanding it. Being emotional about everything and taking a decision immediately is not always the best way. Mature people set their priorities, have control over their emotions, and have positive thinking and a good approach in every problem. The most important thing for intelligent thinking is to understand different perspectives on any issue and seek forgiveness from your mistakes. To make life better, planning and foresight are always necessary.
To have mature thinking, it is important to look at everything with patience and composure. There are moments in life when emotions come first, but wisdom lies in controlling every reaction and thinking first.
Every person has his own thoughts and views, but intelligence is related to understanding and respecting the views of others. When you start understanding the point of view of others, it becomes easy to find a solution to every problem.
Learning at every hurdle in life and accepting your mistakes is a sign of maturity. Everyone makes mistakes, but wisdom is that which learns from them and makes the next step better.
Solutions to problems should be approached with practical and logical thinking instead of being emotional. Wisdom is to take every problem as a challenge and learn from it.
Wise people take out time for every decision and plan their decision-making. They always keep the long-term benefits and disadvantages in mind.
Being mature also means that instead of getting upset over small things, you should focus on the purpose of life. Instead of getting upset over small things, the best way is to take decisions about life with understanding.
Sociality means developing your personality and always working on self-improvement. Trying to improve your skills and thinking every day should be the real purpose of life.
An important aspect of understanding in life is to learn to remain silent on emotional matters. It is not necessary to answer everything immediately. Sometimes the best answer is silence, which proves your maturity and understanding.
An intelligent person is always ready to learn. He understands that knowledge is not only gained from books, but also great learnings are gained from the experiences of people and one's own environment. The passion to learn opens the way to success in life.
Before taking any decision, you should think about its impact not only on yourself but also on others. Mature thinking people think about their actions and their consequences and for this reason their every step is taken after careful consideration.
A mature person is one who has the ability to control his emotions. Anger, regret and happiness are all human emotions but only by controlling them can a person make better decisions in life and become an example for others.
