Why does jealousy always hurt?

English Version

1. Jealousy or depression, this is a feeling that often enters our heart and mind, and we are eaten up from within after seeing someone else's success or happiness. Often we think why this did not happen to us? And then this thought turns into negative thoughts and emotions.

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1. The victims of this emotion are always those people who compare their own life with someone else's. But the sad thing is that such emotions always only cause us losses. We waste our time in demeaning someone else or finding faults in them, while we do not focus on making our own life better.

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1. This jealousy often leads to insecurity and self-doubt. We do not trust ourselves, so when we see someone else's achievements, we feel that we can never reach that level. This insecurity and jealousy together eat away at us from within and lower our confidence.

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1. Keeping the feelings of jealousy in the heart for a long time is like filling the heart with poison. This poison spoils both our thinking and life. And this jealousy only and only stops our growth, because instead of working on ourselves, we start competing with others.

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1. Hazrat Ali (RA) said, "Jealousy eats up your deeds like fire eats up wood." How true is this, because jealousy is an emotion that never ends. As long as we do not control our emotions and thoughts, jealousy will always be there in our lives and will not let us be happy.

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1. The solution is that we should learn to accept ourselves and focus on our path of success. It is better to get inspired by someone else's success and move towards your own success. We should understand that every person's life is different and everyone's journey is different.

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1. When we transform jealousy into gratitude and appreciation, life always seems bright and happy. Loving yourself and being happy about your achievements is the real solution to jealousy. So let go of jealousy and learn to use your emotions to your advantage.

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Roman Urdu Version

Jealousy Hamesha Kyun Haarti Hai?

1. Jealousy ya hasad, ye ek aisi feeling hai jo aksar humare dil aur zehan mein ghus jati hai, aur kisi aur ke success ya khushi dekh kar humein andr se khaa jati hai. Aksar hum sochte hain ke ye kyun humare saath nahi hua? Aur phir ye soch negative sochon aur jazbaat mein badal jati hai.

2. Is jazbaat ka shikar hamesha woh log hote hain jo kisi aur ki zindagi ko apni zindagi se compare karte hain. Lekin afsos ki baat ye hai ke aise jazbaat hamesha humein sirf aur sirf loss dete hain. Hum kisi aur ko neecha dikhana ya unki kamiyaan nikaalne mein apna waqt zaya karte hain, jab ke hum apni zindagi ko behtar banane par focus nahi karte.

3. Is jealousy ki buniyad mein aksar insecurity aur self-doubt hota hai. Hum apne aap par yaqeen nahi karte, isliye kisi aur ke achievements dekh kar humein lagta hai ke hum kabhi us level par nahi pohnch sakte. Yeh insecurity aur jealousy mil kar humein andr se kha jati hain aur humara confidence girati hain.

4. Jealousy ke jazbaat ko zyada der tak dil mein rakhna aise hi hai jaise zeher ko dil mein bhar lena. Is zeher se humari soch aur zindagi dono kharab hote hain. Aur ye jealousy sirf aur sirf hamari growth ko rok deti hai, kyun ke hum apne upar kaam karne ke bajaye doosron se muqabla karne mein lag jate hain.

5. Hazrat Ali (RA) ne farmaya hai, "Hasad tumhare aamal ko is tarah kha jata hai jaise aag lakdi ko kha jati hai." Ye baat kitni sachi hai, kyunki jealousy hamesha khatam hone wala jazba nahi hai. Jab tak hum apne jazbaat aur soch ko control nahi karenge, tab tak jealousy hamesha humari zindagi mein rahegi aur humein khush nahi hone degi.

6. Iska hal ye hai ke hum apne aap ko accept karna seekhein aur apne kamiyabi ke raste par dhyan dein. Kisi aur ki kamiyabi se inspire ho kar apni kamiyabi ki taraf barhna zyada behtar hai. Humein ye samajhna chahiye ke har shakhs ki zindagi alag hai, aur har kisi ka safar alag hota hai.

7. Jab hum jealousy ko shukr aur appreciation mein badalte hain, tab zindagi hamesha bright aur khushhaal lagti hai. Apne aap ko pyaar karna aur apni kamiyabi par khush hona hi jealousy ka asal hal hai. Isliye jealousy ko haarne dein, aur apne jazbaat ko apne fayde mein istemal karna seekhein.