english post:
Life is a wonderful journey which is filled with new trials and experiences every day. Sometimes the sun of happiness is dazzling and sometimes the dark clouds of heat cover it. Every human being is in search of some destination in this journey but the real fun lies in living the path more than reaching the destination. Troubles do not break a person but make him even stronger, one should never lose the courage and hope. Sometimes life's decisions seem very difficult, it seems everything is over, but time is the most healing. What seems painful today, becomes a story tomorrow which when remembered makes us smile. No matter how difficult the journey is, at every turn there is a new lesson, a sign of a new path. Sometimes small joys, a cup of good tea, someone's laughter or a night full of stars can make a person's entire day better. That's why every small thing in life should be felt, every moment should be lived because this journey cannot be achieved again.
Sometimes life takes us to such a point where everything seems strange and unknown. It feels like there is darkness in front of us and we cannot see any way out. But these are the moments that truly test a human being. Only those who have courage and patience can go through this darkness and reach the light. After every bad time, a good time definitely comes, it is just important that we keep our thinking positive and consider every difficulty an opportunity to learn. Love is also a strange emotion which either makes the life of a person better or puts him in a deep sorrow. True love is not just about water but about loving someone without any greed. Those who consider love as just an emotional game can never understand its depth. True love becomes even stronger with time, but the relationships which are made only on the basis of profit and necessity, remain just a story of a few days. Love looks beautiful only when it is maintained with dignity and loyalty.
Friendship is also a priceless relationship which is not just of blood but of heart. A good friend is one who stays with you not only in happiness but also in sorrow. Nowadays in fast life style people limit friendship only to benefits, but real friendship is one which is maintained without any greed. A true friend never says bad things behind his back, rather tries to improve by telling the other person in front of him. The real purpose of friendship is not just to have fun, but to be a support to the other in difficult times.
Life is like a book in which a new page is written every day. Some pages are filled with happiness, some with sorrow. Every new day is an opportunity for a new beginning. Sometimes we get so lost in the moments that we are unable to feel what is in front of us today. The real fun of life is not just in thinking about tomorrow or future, but in living every moment of today. Feel every moment, every relationship, every feeling with your heart because the time that passes never comes back.
The greatest strength of a man is his thinking. A thought which is positive can make difficulties easy and a thought which is negative can ruin even the best of opportunities. Everything in life is not just related to sight, but also to perspective. A man sees only the path in darkness, while others light the lamp of hope by seeing the same star. That's why, if we try to break the tests of life, then we should make our thinking so strong that we see every bad time as a new lesson.
Traveling is not just a way to go to new places, but a way to gain new experiences and new perspectives. When a person sees a new city, meets new people, feels new atmosphere, then his thinking also changes. Every place has a different color, a different story which teaches a person to live in a new way. A good book and a good journey leads a person's thinking to a new place, that's why one should see as many new places as possible, talk to new people and achieve new experiments.
Success does not only mean earning money or fame, but real success also includes peace of heart and achieving one's goal. Many people suffer only after wealth and even when they get everything, they are not happy. The real success is only that which gives peace to the soul of a person, who is beneficial not just for himself but also for others. People who live just for themselves, there is always emptiness in their life, but those who help others, their heart always remains happy.
Relationships are not made just by blood, but also by loyalty and dignity. The relationships which are only till the words, can give peace for a moment, but cannot be a companion forever. To maintain a relationship, not only love is important, respecting the feelings of the other person is also important. If in a relationship only one person understands and the other person just follows his own will, then such relationships break one day. The best relationships are those where respect and love are equal.
urdu post:
Zindagi ek ajeeb safar hai jo har roz naye imtehanat aur tajurbaat se bhara hota hai. Kabhi khushi ka suraj chamak raha hota hai, to kabhi gham ki kali badalain chha jati hain. Har insaan is safar mein kisi na kisi manzil ki talash mein hota hai, magar asal maza manzil tak pohanchne se zyada us raste ko jeene mein hai. Musibatain insan ko todti nahi, balki aur bhi mazboot banati hain, bas hosla aur umeed ka daaman nahi chorna chahiye. Kabhi kabhi zindagi ke faisle bohot mushkil lagte hain, lagta hai sab kuch khatam ho gaya hai, magar waqt sab se bara marham hai. Jo aj dukh lag raha hota hai, wahi kal aik kahani ban jata hai jise yaad kar ke muskuraya jata hai. Safar chahe jitna bhi mushkil ho, har mod par ek naya sabaq hota hai, ek naye raste ka ishara hota hai. Kabhi kabhi chhoti chhoti khushiyan, aik achi chai ki piyali, kisi apne ki hasi ya chand sitaron bhari raat insaan ka pura din behtareen bana sakti hai. Is liye, zindagi ki har chhoti chhoti baat ko mehsoos karna chahiye, har lamha jeena chahiye, kyunki ye safar dobara nahi milta.
Kabhi kabhi zindagi hamen aise mod par le aati hai jahan sab kuch ajeeb aur anjaana lagta hai. Aisa mehsoos hota hai jaise samne andhera ho aur koi rasta nazar na aaye. Lekin yehi woh lamhe hote hain jo insan ki asli azmaish lete hain. Hosla aur sabr rakhne walay hi is andhere se guzar kar roshni tak pohanchte hain. Har buray waqt ke baad acha waqt zaroor aata hai, bas zaroori hai ke hum apni soch ko musbat rakhain aur har mushkil ko seekhne ka moka samjhein.
Mohabbat bhi ek ajeeb jazba hai jo insaan ki zindagi ko ya to behtareen bana deta hai ya phir usay aik gehri udaasi mein daal deta hai. Sachi mohabbat sirf paanay ka naam nahi balki kisi ko bina kisi lalach ke chahne ka naam hai. Jo log mohabbat ko sirf aik jazbati khel samajhtay hain, wo kabhi iski gehrai nahi samajh sakte. Waqt ke saath sacha pyar aur bhi mazboot hota hai, magar jo rishtay sirf faiday aur zaroorat ki buniyad par banay jate hain, wo sirf chand dinon ki kahani ban kar reh jate hain. Mohabbat tabhi khoobsurat lagti hai jab wo izzat aur wafadari ke saath nibhayi jaye.
Dosti bhi ek anmol rishta hai jo sirf khoon ka nahi balki dil ka rishta hota hai. Aik acha dost woh hota hai jo sirf khushi mein nahi, dukh mein bhi saath nibhaye. Aaj kal ke fast life style mein log dost sirf faiday tak simit kar dete hain, magar asal dosti woh hai jo bina kisi lalach ke nibhai jaye. Ek saccha dost kabhi peeth peeche burai nahi karta, balki samne bata kar sudharne ki koshish karta hai. Dosti ka asal maqsad sirf maze karna nahi, balki mushkilon mein ek doosray ka sahara banna hota hai.
Zindagi ek kitab ki tarah hai jisme har din ek naya safha likha jata hai. Kuch safhay khushiyon se bharay hote hain, to kuch dukhon se. Har naya din ek naye shuruat ka moka hota hai. Kabhi kabhi hum guzre huye lamhon mein itna kho jate hain ke jo aj hamare samne hai usay mehsoos hi nahi kar pate. Zindagi ka asal maza sirf kal ya mustaqbil ke baray mein sochnay mein nahi, balki aj ka har lamha jeene mein hai. Har waqt ko, har rishte ko, har ahsas ko dil se mehsoos karo, kyunki jo waqt guzar jata hai, wo phir wapas nahi aata.
Insaan ki sabse badi taqat uski soch hoti hai. Jo soch musbat hoti hai, wo mushkilon ko bhi aasaan bana deti hai, aur jo soch manfi ho, wo behtareen moqa bhi barbaad kar deti hai. Zindagi mein har cheez ka taaluq sirf nazar se nahi, nazariye se bhi hota hai. Aik insaan andheray mein sirf tareekhi dekhta hai, jabke doosra wahi sitare dekh kar umeed ka diya jala leta hai. Isi liye, agar zindagi ke imtehan hamen todne ki koshish karein, to hamen apni soch ko itna mazboot banana chahiye ke har buray waqt ko aik naye sabaq ki tarah dekhein.
Safar karna sirf nayi jagahon par janay ka naam nahi, balki naye tajurbaat aur naye nazariyat hasil karne ka tareeqa hai. Jab insaan naye shehr dekhta hai, naye logon se milta hai, naye maholat mehsoos karta hai, to uski soch aur bhi wasi ho jati hai. Har jagah ka aik alag rang, aik alag kahani hoti hai jo insan ko naye andaz mein jeena sikhati hai. Ek achi kitaab aur aik acha safar insaan ki soch ko aik naye jahaan se milata hai, isi liye jitna ho sake nayi jagah dekhni chahiye, naye logon se baat karni chahiye aur naye tajurbaat hasil karne chahiye.
Kamyabi sirf paisa ya shoharat hasil karne ka naam nahi, balki dil ka sukoon aur apne maqsad ko hasil karna bhi asal kamyabi hai. Bohot se log sirf daulat ke peechay bhaghtay hain aur jab unhain sab kuch mil jata hai, tab bhi wo khush nahi hote. Asal kamyabi sirf woh hai jo insan ki ruh ko sukoon de, jo sirf khud ke liye nahi, balki doosron ke liye bhi faidemand ho. Jo log sirf apne liye jeetay hain, unki zindagi me aik khalipan rehta hai, magar jo doosron ki madad karte hain, unka dil hamesha khush rehta hai.
Rishtay sirf khoon se nahi bante, balki wafadari aur izzat se bhi bante hain. Jo rishtay sirf lafzon tak mehdoood rahain, wo lamha bhar ka sukoon to de sakte hain, magar hamesha ka saathi nahi ban sakte. Rishtay nibhanay ke liye sirf mohabbat zaroori nahi, aik doosray ki feelings ki kadar bhi zaroori hai. Agar aik rishtay mein sirf aik shakhs samajhota karta rahe aur doosra sirf apni marzi chalaye, to aise rishtay ek din toot jate hain. Behtareen rishtay woh hote hain jahan izzat aur mohabbat dono barabar ho.
