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Today I have decided to share the little I know about sex education to children. So many times parents do not know when and how to start educating their children about sex education and if you fail to do this be sure that the wild kids outside in their schools, neighborhoods, churches, mosque and so on would expose them to the negative part of sex. They will show them the wrong part of sex that you would have taught them the proper way from home. So, mummy, daddy, older siblings and guardian start now to tell them it's not too late.
AT WHAT AGE SHOULD A CHILD BE EXPOSED TO SEX EDUCATION
There is no age bracket to when a child should be exposed to sex education. Gone are the days when people will say tell them about this when they are entering teenage because now the children of 2 years are been taking advantage of by close relatives, teachers, etc. These children who lack the proper education do not know what that Uncle or Aunty is saying or doing to them so when they get home they can't open their mouth to tell their parents that someone is touching them inappropriately. Most times kids like this become damaged if they do not receive the proper orientation.
So at the point when your child can talk and mention part of the body please educate these children about sex education. Do not think they are too young, start with what their brain can comprehend little by little before they approach 9 - 10 years these things would be at their finger tips.
HOW DO I START TALKING TO THEM ABOUT SEX EDUCATION
Start by telling them the names of the parts of the body and the use for each part of the body. When that is established, tell them about their private part and what will happen if the opposite sex have there way with them, and if same sex decides to use there hands on their private part. Tell them the danger involved and its consequences on their life.
Also, let them know that when they are faced with any of these abuse they should be able to speak to either of their parents about it without fear or intimidation. Tell them to try and resist these evil individuals by saying "Please let me go", "I am not interested in this" and "I will talk to my parents about this". More importantly, as parents when they come to you with this issue do not make them scared by asking questions that will make them not to open up to you such as WHO TOUCHED YOU?, WHERE?, COME AND SHOW ME THE PERSON? This is a time to hide your fury and be soft with the child, get details from the child and take it up from there while doing that do not expose the child to it like taking the child for plenty interrogation because that will make him/her really scared.
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DANGERS OF HAVING SEX AT THEIR YOUNG AGE
There are many dangers that children who are exposed to sex at a tender age face and it can pose a long-term impact on their life. Some of these dangers include:
- Damage the sex organ of the child due to forceful penetration
- Unwanted pregnancy for female
- The child might become addicted to sex
- The child mental and emotional health might be damaged
- For male child they tend to grow up to be pedophile
- Their child's education might be placed on hold.
WHEN DO I STOP EDUCATING THEM
Sex education is a continuous process that we teach our children until they grow to be matured men and women. When they get married, they too will educate their kids. So it a continuous process more like a chain.
So, parents be sure to educate these kids.