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The life’s journey is usually full of challenges and it sometimes may the question of how to handle friendship and competition arise. It's a reality that's woven into the fabric of human interactions: everybuddy is a fan when you are a friend, but in a competition, even a beloved gets enemy. We all have to remember that sometimes things happen unexpectedly and they are not always parallel to the social standards.
First of all the time coming your route to the goals the approval and the gratitude about you is to be at maximum level. Pals, people in your family, and even that friend-of-a-friend group, will not only be with you but also make you feel on the top of the world as they will be cheering you on as you work to accomplish your goals. Their support soars your heart, enabling you to break free and strut with the core of the violet flame.
On the one hand, you can be a great success as your accomplishments keep drawing you higher up the ladder but on the flipside you can start to feel apathetic if you are not aware of the thin line between you and the summit of fame. This is something that can cause really uncomfortable feelings when once someone’s beloved fans now look at them through the lens that is colored with envy and insecurity. Your success is the final outcome of the race in front of them with their own desires and faults in mind, which probably causes disdain and envy.
Instantly, an admiration of theirs transforms into a cold-bloodedness towards them. Any of your accomplishments are subjected to scrupulous analyses, motives are questioned, and your every move digged out for signs of frailty. It is more like a scathingly lucid manifestation that too the one who stood by cannot sustain forever when you are moved by the ambition of greatness.
On the other hand, whether in good or in bad times, being confronted with the ups and downs of competitors, valuable lessons will certainly be taught to us. It shows us that external validation is fleeting and . On the other hand, every once in a while, one's place in the sun does get to the level of public admiration. Real triumph is not determined by how many sympathizers you possess or how many obstacles you may encounter; it is experienced in your no-backsies effort to fulfil your inner potential and desires.
Yet, it can hurt that some don’t stand by your side during hard times. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that these are good companions. Instead, remember that when real friends lie beside you in victory and defeat, that is when you realize what values true friends have. And while in a time of everybody appears to love you before you have become a competition, the greatest challenge is in being able to emerge with poise and dignity without displaying too much emotions.