Advocating for equal rights, opportunities, and treatment

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The issue of feminism have been a controversial one in our society, the simplest and general definition of this term is a liberal struggle by women to be treated equally as men. Feminist fights agitates for equality not superiority. There are so many definitions by different scholars and critics.

The fight for feminism have been in existence before the modern age, the movement started due to some suppression, subjection and restrictions placed against women .

I’m not a feminist, but I’m here to address some thoughts about this concept, I feel like girls who emphasize on this concept in our generation are hurt, they are in serious pains.
All the girls I have met, promoting the concept of feminism are coming from homes with hard and strict fathers.

This concept is birthed through pain, as fathers, brothers , and uncles learn to protect the females around, not only by fighting for them but also making the situation and environment suitable for them. Any lady agitating for feminism have had a struggle or painful childhood experience.
The attitude of the first set of men she meets growing up , determines her opinion or view on the male child, pls men should protect the emotional and mental health of the little females around them.

I met a girl back in the university, she happened to be a beautiful lady from the East and I liked here because she’s my look alike,
Her name is Jennifer and each time you meet the young lady she is either downgrading men or fighting against them, I called her to order several times but she will always refuse.
I called her on a particular day and she told me how cruel her dad was to her mom and her before they separated.
After her painful story, I realized it takes love to get her, great love and patience.
Her experience in the past have dealt with her mental health affecting the way she discusses with the male gender.

The first set of men a lady encounters, should show her first hand love, especially her father.
Fathers should bond with their female kids ,protect their mental health, future relationships and the society.

Secondly, as ladies you should be mindful of men you let into your beautiful life, don’t let misogynistic men, too much emotional damages opens you to bruises and at the end you will stand defensive against good men in general. Pains affects how we behave or react to things, it’s very essential you protect your mental health at all cost.

I met an amazing friend from a very happy home,in her case she have allowed men into her life and she’s now demanding for equal treatment, most males only learnt to treat women poorly from their dad.

Even in our work areas,you see men acting so adamant to their bosses because she’s female, most of them go extreme to ensure she get sacked and they take control.
At the end of the day the boss will act rigid, create her boundaries and it becomes a fight .

Feminism is concept that was built out of pain, suppression , subjection and restrictions from the medieval to classical age by men and it’s in the hand of men to change the story for the younger generation, build healthy relationships with the girl child , your spouse and female ,colleagues. Don’t restrict them or remind them that they are ladies always.
Females will not agitate for liberation if they are treated well.
Women are productive, powerful and lovely and they deserve to be treated with respect too.

The concept or idea of feminism is to put mend to suppression, sexism, exploitation and physical abuse from the toxic males.