Most times we see ourselves having a bad day. And the worst part of it is that sometimes we don't know the reason as to why we are going through such an experience. Sometimes we see ourselves lost in thoughts, confused. We may be doing our best in everything we are doing, but if there is no purpose that we hope to achieve out of it, then we may often find ourselves in this situation.
For everything that we do, there has to be a desired outcome that we hope to achieve. We have to be specific about what we want. Specificity matters a lot. You don't make estimates on matters like this. Not knowing what you want can actually turn the result into a problem. Here are some things you should consider in your life:
Where Do You Want To Be?
In this life, everyone should have a destination. If you don't have a mental picture of where you want to be in life, you'll just end up moving in circles. No one steps out of his or her house and begins to walk aimlessly. Every sane person you see on the road has somewhere they are going. Life is like a journey; the endpoint of a journey is Destination.
We should be able to decide for ourselves where we want to end up at some certain point in life. It could be in our career, or it could be about a certain aspect that we are building up in our lives. Either way, it is important to have a clear vision of that destination in mind.
How Soon Do You Want To Get There?
This is where you begin to set a timeframe in order to meet up with that vision you have in mind. Setting up a timeframe helps you be time-conscious and focused. You try your best to beat the time, just like the way you avoid being late for class or for work.
Although you may set a time limit and not meet up with the exact time, if you put in all effort and determination, you'll definitely end up within the range of that time limit you set.
Go on and live a Happy Life!
You are guaranteed of living a happiness now that you know what you want. Trust me, not knowing what you want can be really terrible. You mind will be more at rest you are certain of what you want in life. This enables you to know where to drive your energy to.