Staying away: part two

Good evening fams , how are we all doing, I trust we are all doing great.

Well te previous day , u decided to take a little break away from my regular post and decided to write a bit more about myself and how I tend to see the realness in people around me.

Like I mentioned earlier, I took a break from social media which wasn't an easy task for me. anyway let me be Frank and truthful with you guys, I sensed that maybe I was getting depressed, it could be maybe due to the school stress but honestly, i don't even know what was actually getting me depressed,before that I was the friendly type that always checked up on my friends

But few days after staying away from social media, the close friends that I was actually expecting to check on didn't, they ignored me and pretended as if we were never friends and it was now those that I actually less expected were the ones that checked up on me.

It was so sad to me knowing how much energy I put into the friendship with others but they couldn't return the same energy to me.

but I learnt a very Vital and important lesson about life which was actually one of the main reasons of sharing this experience with you guys.

• First of all, give what you want in return, if you are expecting "honesty" in a friendship, First of all give it.
• When the energy that you give in is not being returned, ensure to return back the same energy that was given to you.

-Take people for who they are , don't accept them for the type of person you want them to become.

• Learn to step away from any relationship once you are not being valued.

This are some of the life lessons I have learnt so far and I hope you will also benefit from it.

Mgbede ọma, ụmụnna m, kedụ ka anyị mere? Ekwenyere m na anyị niile nọ na ahụ ike.

Ụbọchị gara aga, ekpebiri m ịkwụsị ntakịrị oge site n'ịkekọrịta ihe mgbe niile ma tinye aka na ịkọwa ntakịrị banyere onwe m na otú m si ahụ eziokwu n'ime ndị nọ n’akụkụ m.

Dịka m kwurula na mbụ, ewepụrụ m aka n'ọrụ mgbasa ozi mgbasa ozi, nke abụghị ihe dị mfe. Ka m kwuo eziokwu, achọpụtara m na o yiri ka m na-enwe nrụgide uche. O nwere ike ịbụ n'ihi nrụgide n'ụlọ akwụkwọ, ma ọ bụ n'ezie, amaghịkwa m ihe kpatara ya. Tupu nke ahụ, abụrụ m ụdị enyi na-elekọta ndị enyi m oge niile.

Ma n'izu ole na ole gara aga mgbe m akwụsịrị ime ihe na mgbasa ozi mgbasa ozi, ndị enyi m dị nso ndị m tụrụ anya na ha ga-elekọta m emeghị ya; ha hapụrụ m dịka ọ dịghị ihe jikọrọ anyị. Mana ndị ahụ m na-atụ anya na ha agaghị echeta m bụ ndị gosipụtara na ha na-eche banyere m.

Ọ dị m nwute nke ukwuu ịhụ otú m si tinye ọtụtụ ike na enyi na enyi, ebe ha enweghị ike ịlaghachi otu ike ahụ.

Ma site n'ahụmịhe ahụ, m mụtara ihe dị oke mkpa banyere ndụ, nke bụkwa otu n'ime isi ihe mere m ji kọrọ ahụmịhe a.

• Nke mbụ, nye ihe ị chọrọ ka a nye gị. Ọ bụrụ na ị chọrọ "eziokwu" na enyi na enyi, nye ya mbụ.
• Ọ bụrụ na ike i tinyere n'enyi na enyi anaghị alaghachi, kpọgharịa otu ike ahụ onye ahụ nyere gị.
• Nabata mmadụ dịka ha dị; emela ka ha bụrụ ụdị mmadụ ị chọrọ ka ha bụrụ.
• Mụta ịpụ n’ime mmekọrịta ọ bụla mgbe a naghị ahụ uru gị.

Ndị a bụ ụfọdụ n'ime ihe ọmụmụ ndụ m mụtara, ma ọ bụrụ na i nwee ike irite uru site na ya, obi ga-atọ m ụtọ.