Uncertainty Embracing: Walking Journey of Growth

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Life rarely unfolds the way we plan. We predict, prepare, and try to have control over our situations, but all too often, uncertainty intervenes and takes our life in absolutely unprecedented directions. For a long time, I clung for dear life to the idea that having control would have to equate to security. But as I went on to learn, it's only when we embrace uncertainty and have faith that life knows its way to exactly where we must go.

The Fear of the Unknown

I spent most of my young adult life believing that success occurred through careful planning. My life was mapped out; every goal for my career and the people I was to be with, along with my personal accomplishments, were part of the map. My theory was that so long as I played it by the book, I would be safe from failure or disappointment.

But life, as such, has a funny way of unraveling even the best-laid plans. I had spent a lifetime preparing myself and working up to a particular career opportunity. One day, that all went up in smoke. Everything that I had assembled and built came crashing down, and the world, not to mention myself, seemed to lose its direction and sense about what to do. Then, as if it weren't enough that everything about me might be wrong, it seemed that everything about myself that I had come to believe was suddenly called into question: my choices, my abilities, even the purpose I served.

The Power of Letting Go

At this point, an epiphany struck me: the more I resisted the uncertainties of life, the more imprisoned I felt. It was as though I was holding a rope that was slithering away from my hands. The more I held onto it, the more painful it became.

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So I consciously decided to let go.

Letting go did not mean giving up. It means acknowledging you can't control every outcome and that's all right. That uncertainty was not the enemy but an opportunity. An opportunity to redefine what success looks like, to be open to so much more, and to trust that even though I didn't have all the answers, I was still moving forward.

Strength in Vulnerability

After surrendering the struggle to control, it meant strength in vulnerability for me. Opening myself to uncertainty was, strangely, accepting the pain of growth. It was somehow saying that I did not know what would come next and that is okay.

The vulnerable space I found passions I had yet to identify in my life. As an introvert, writing was always fascinating to me; however, writing as a serious pursuit was something I never thought of. Now, I realized that putting words on paper became processing for myself-thoughts, fears, and hope-but the result was finding my voice again, once stronger, truer to who I really am, more in sync with it.

The Beauty of Uncertainty

Reviewing it all now, I would say one of the best teachers for me has been uncertainty. It forced me out of my comfort zones into a space where growth just had to happen. I learned to trust myself and the process of life in embracing the unknown.

There is beauty in uncertainty, for nothing that has ever been was meant to be, and all is still possible. Life is full of hope, filled with opportunities waiting to be found. It all unfolds if we can let go of the need to control every outcome: possibilities that could lead us down paths we have never considered, yet it is precisely where we are meant to be.

Moving Ahead

When you are in the midst of uncertainty, remember that you're not alone. Fear is natural and should be expected when the future is nothing short of foggy. However, rather than resisting the unknown, try leaning into it. Know that although you don't have answers to everything, you still are capable of making your way through anything coming your way.

Ultimately, be it as it may: embrace the unknown, and let it guide you toward growth. You would not know what comes next; that is simply part of the adventure. And besides, the best stories are those we never did expect to happen.


Uncertainty is a natural part of life, but embracing it opens the way for an entirely endless stream of possibilities. That's where true growth begins.

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