It's the most annoying thing and my tolerance level to this is very poor. When people are fake with you, instantly you can make that out. In this week, I had met up a cousin of mine. Honestly I had no mood to meet her, but then she insisted that me and family should come for a house party she had organized. She is a cousin from my hubby's side and has always been kind of a nuisance and I like to keep my distance with her. This was an important event for her, so I coaxed hubby and son to attend it, since she also insisted so much. Hubby was not at all in favor, but then he agreed. The background to her is, that she always finds some problem with us, and behaves that she has been the victim in the family. Many times I have tried to talk to her and sort it out. On the face she does say that she is fine now and has nothing in her heart, but when she is around, her attitude shows that she does not mean what she says.
When we reached to her place, she greeted us with a very fake smile, which I could easily identify because it was very obvious and from that moment onwards I got uncomfortable. It was her little daughter's birthday so we overlooked and still went ahead. After that throughout the party her behavior was indifferent with us. Anyways there was no point telling her anything and I did not even want to spoil it in that moment the occasion, so we spent some time and then politely left the place. Some of my other friends who were also invited also noticed this whole thing and they started asking me why was her behavior like that for us, and I had no answer to that.
It was quite an awkward moment for me and my family and I did feel very hurt, because while inviting when I refused, she insisted so much that I should come and when I was there she was something very different person. It kept playing on my mind and heart so much that I could not sleep throughout the night after that and then I was sick, I puked and it was a total mess of my health for a few hours.
Morning I slept till late then and after I woke up the first thing I did was took a head bath with salt to clear the energy around me, and then visited a Temple to boost myself up with some good energy. I also did a white light meditation for protection. In those few hours that I spent in her home I felt a total energy drain as if someone had sucked out all the energy from me.
From now on I have decided to completely cut off with her, because whenever I meet her these kind of things happen. So best is to cut off completely from her. I do not wish to have any ill or good feelings for her, I just want to completely cut off all cords with her. That would be ideal for me to do to safeguard my own interest.
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It may hard to cut off ties with someone who is a part of the family but we had to especially when your mental and physical health is in concern. Good that you had decided to cut off with her.. I had also did like that a long time ago for my peace of mind. Having someone who has fake behaviour would really affect us in some way.