The people we have around us, in that there are all sorts of people coming up with all different types of personalities, there is no good or bad that I define, but one thing I always want to keep away from is the company of people who are always into the habit of complaining. There are people who no matter whatever they have in life but they will always focus on what they do not have, what they lack and then keep crying over that. I also call such type of people energy suckers, because they can really drain you out with their constant cribbing over life. These are very toxic kind of people.
Who does not have problems in life, everyone has it, and not everyone keeps shouting out to the world of their problems. So when one is not loud of their problems does not mean that they do not have. One of my aunt falls in this toxic category. For many years I tried to accommodate her by trying to always give her positive view-point over her situations, but then now I feel very fed up of her and I just do not feel like encouraging any kind of conversations with her. Because whenever I try to be nice to her then immediately her complaints about everyone and everything starts. She has this notion that my life is a la la land just because she sees a few pictures on Instagram of some good times that I share.
Everyone is walking their own life-path and in that these kind of negative people can really become very heavy to accept at times. They can easily pull you down in their negativity. By now I strongly believe that the lives we have are a result of our own Karma and the free will choices that we make, so if something is not going right then it needs inner-reflection rather then putting the blames on the outside on situation and people.
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